No News...Still...

Yes, that's right - we still have no news. It's been over a month, and not only has there not been another batch of referrals, there hasn't even been a single rumor. A few agencies think that we may see something next week, and one agency said this week that they are "preparing for matches" (whatever that means), but who knows. With the Chinese New Year coming up, I would guess we will see a batch right before they close for the holiday. I believe that they close for a week...a few days before and a few days after the holiday so that employees can travel home. In the past, the CCAA sends out a batch right before they leave, which looks like what will happen again this year. Traditionally, they like to "clear off their desks" before the New Year (cleaning for the New Year is part of the culture), so they get that last batch out the day before they leave so that they will come back to a clean desk and fresh start. Sometimes the batch before CNY is a little bigger, but not always. I would hope that they would cover at least 2 or 3 days of LIDs, but, once again, who knows.

With the first few days of April LIDs receiving their referrals in December, we've started to think about baby stuff for the first time. Chris and I went to Baby 2 Teen (a ginormous baby super store) last weekend to look at cribs, and I am going to go to Buy Buy Baby with an adoption friend to get some advice next week. It's all so overwhelming...if you have advice on what to buy (or what NOT to buy), I would love to hear it! :) Over MLK Weekend we saw my favorite band Eddie from Ohio in concert with our friends Josh & Annie - an amazing show, made better by the absurd opening band who didn't realize we were laughing at them not with them (truly one of the unintentionally funniest moments in a long long time!) Last weekend we also said goodbye to Chris's sister Martha, who is off to Swaziland for a year. (it's a landlocked country inside of South Africa) She'll be doing conservation research, which sounds really cool, though I can't even begin to imagine living in a tent for a year! (since I won't even stay at an EconoLodge!) And this weekend we are enjoying an unexpected snow storm! Thankfully this time it is all really light and fluffy snow, so even though we have had to shovel twice already, it was a much easier time than last month's snowpocolypse!

3 comments:

Sarah Meytin 10:36 PM  

May sound strange, but I recommend a bassinet until the baby is ready to move into their own room, and then just using a pack-n-play. It makes the baby SO portable - they always have THEIR bed with them, you can go anywhere (out to a friend's house for dinner, no problem - just bring the bed!) Really, you don't need a crib...

Highly recommend digital baby monitors (the regular ones will pick up your neighbor's baby down the street -and who needs to wake up extra times during the night)...

Would love to talk more about baby stuff - I love following your progress on the blog!

Sarah Meytin 10:38 PM  

Woops - that was me (Sarah Meytin)

Unknown 8:31 AM  

Hi Mara! I have been an avid follower of your blog too. Any questions you have on what is useful or not please feel free to email or call me anytime. After 2 kids that were so completely different babies, I think I have useful perspective.

But remember, your life will never be the same once you see her. :) I'll be thinking speedy-referral thoughts for you both.